My New Word for Nostalgia

This is the time of year many of us have musings of a bygone time in our lives and we call it nostalgia. I always thought “nostalgia” was a sad word, because it brought to mind events of the past that we could only relive in our memories, of a time already gone that we could not visit again. The dictionary says nostalgia is a longing or homesickness for something far away or long ago for former happy circumstances. That longing is what gives sadness to the word.

To remedy this, I made up a new word. “Hearthy.” To me, hearthy is a happy sounding word to start with, and it illustrates the mood or moods of this time of year. When I ponder on the word hearthy, I think of brightly-colored falling leaves and shuffling through them on the way to somewhere; bobbing for apples; lounging on a braided rug in front of a fireplace all aglow; watching the Thanksgiving Day Parade on TV; looking up at the stars on a still, crisp night; listening to the carols of the season; catching the first flakes of snow on my tongue. These are not just memories of the past, but things that can be experienced year after year. Now, and in the future. That’s what makes hearthy — happy.

In my office, I have bookshelves on either side of my desk that are filled with photos of my family and friends. When I enter each day I am greeted by them and often I find myself thinking about and remembering favorite times with them. Granted, some of those people have passed away, but I have made peace with that, and only think of them in happy terms now. Although they are part of nostalgia, I prefer to think of them when I am doing something hearthy and they become part of my hearthy life rather than my past nostalgia one. I have no idea if that makes any sense to you, dear reader, but for me, it’s a way to remember without being sad.

So, here it is November. I’m probably one of the few who still sends out Christmas cards to almost a hundred people each year and I’ve got them all ready to address and to write a little note in each. I’ll start putting up Christmas decorations soon and make my power company happy for the next couple of months. As I decorate the tree, hearthy thoughts will fill the room as brightly as the hundreds of lights that sparkle on it.

Hearthy holidays!

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15 responses to “My New Word for Nostalgia

  1. Mine are neither written nor ready to address, but they will be soon!

  2. I’ve bee eaten up with the nostalgia bug for the past few weeks and writing my posts accordingly and I’m quite enjoying being nostalgic and th few tears that I sometimes shed, some happy tears some sad but I suppose that’s the same for all we octogenerians 😛

  3. Pat Gordon

    Hi Coco,
    I love your joyful blog and I am adopting your word: Heartthy! You are an incredible writer!
    All the best to you. my friend.
    Pat

  4. mary

    I like your new word! I, too, have been nostalgic for past times, especially with holidays coming up rapidly. I will try to be more hearthy, about missing days gone by. Very good point!

  5. I love this, Coco! I agree, nostalgia has a hint of melancholy about it that the sweetness of hearty does not. So Hearthy Holidays to you!

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